Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Post No. 90b: The Stranger



Someone sent this to us earlier this year. We do not know the origin of this piece, and we do not claim any intellectual property rights to it. In light of some of the comments responsive to our post about interracial couples on television, we thought that you might find it interesting.


A few years after I was born, my Dad met a stranger who was new to our small Texas town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with this enchanting newcomer and soon invited him to live with our family. The stranger was quickly accepted and was around from then on.

As I grew up, I never questioned his place in my family. In my young mind, he had a special niche. My parents were complementary instructors: Mom taught me good from evil, and Dad taught me to obey.
But the stranger... he was our storyteller. He would keep us spellbound for hours on end with adventures, mysteries, and comedies.

If I wanted to know anything about politics, history or science, he always knew the answers about the past, understood the present, and even seemed able to predict the future! He took my family to the first major league ball game. He made me laugh, and he made me cry.
The stranger never stopped talking, but Dad didn't seem to mind.

Sometimes, Mom would get up quietly while the rest of us were shushing each other to listen to what he had to say, and she would go to the kitchen for peace and quiet. (I wonder now if she ever prayed for the stranger to leave.)

Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions, but the stranger never felt obligated to honor them. Profanity, for example, was not allowed in our home... Not from us, our friends or any visitors.
Our longtime visitor, however, got away with four-letter words that burned my ears and made my dad squirm and my mother blush. My Dad didn't permit the liberal use of alcohol. But the stranger encouraged us to try it on a regular basis. He made cigarettes look cool, cigars manly, and pipes distinguished.
He talked freely (much too freely!) about sex. His comments were sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive, and generally embarrassing.

I now know that my early concepts about relationships were influenced strongly by the stranger. Time after time, he opposed the values of my parents, yet he was seldom rebuked... And NEVER asked to leave.

More than fifty years have passed since the stranger moved in with our family. He has blended right in and is not nearly as fascinating as he was at first. Still, if you could walk into my parents' den today, you will still find him sitting over in his corner, waiting for someone to listen to him talk and watch him draw his pictures.
His name?

We just called him 'TV.'

6 comments:

  1. Very cool story and magical conclusion.
    Vikki

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  2. That about says it! Was it a passive influence or urging to go and do likewise? It seems to me the family influences mitigated the visitor's contributions, or at least could have. Good story.

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  3. Having been introduce to "TV" when I was only 4 (1950), I can only say he did not use any profanity until I was well into adulthood. The soap operas were full of implied, but not portrayed, sex until the 70s. But, still, TV did push the boundaries a bit. There were no ads for hard liquor but plenty for beer. And cigarettes were the major sponsors, even bigger than the oil companies.

    But he definitely fascinated us and kept us enthralled and taught us about the world outside our little town. Edward R. Murrow, John Daly, Cronkite, Huntley and Brinkley all told us about events around the world that I, as a child, would never have known otherwise. Ed Sullivan introduced me to comedy and music from all over the world.

    TV was not a stranger in my life, he was a good friend.

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  4. Interesting and cool story......
    keep up sharing.........:)

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  5. Thanks much Canada Mystery Author. The Logistician spend many a weekend in Vancouver and parts nearby, and always tells us that you folks are pretty neat up there. Please visit us often, particularly because there are so many similarities between our countries, and yet so many differences. You should have a unique perspective3.

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  6. Interesting and cool story......
    keep up sharing.........:)

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